Family
Everyone also having the different order of seniority among brothers and sisters in the family. I'm the youngest.. How about you?
As we know, there are big difference in the family. Here is my opinion..
The eldest:
This child in the family will be the most happiness while they are young. They are the first child of their parents or family. So, they will get more pamper before the younger sister or brother born. They having a big responsibilities to take good care for the youngers when they grown up. While they will be learning more and having more knowledge than the youngers. Anything that couldn't be settle by youngers, they will be the one who settle it. They learned to make decision and independant. They learn to be care and loving. They are the one who in charge when the parents are not in. Because of all these factors, they are more tension. Some of them may need to afford their family's expenses. Moreover, they may need to afford the youngest to continue their study. Difference responsible to the difference family. But, normally parents will be more trusty and feel ease for what they do. The eldest child having more freedom as parents think they had grow up and independant. They are mature and know what should be planning for themselves.
The middle child:
This may the second or third or the following child. They will get more love while the youngest child is not yet born. They will be sharing the love from brothers and sisters with the youngest. One thing is they also having their own of freedom and not be as tension as the eldest. For sure, they also having their own responsibilities. But, they won't get the love as much as the youngest (usually is like that la..). They also got to learn independant as the eldest. They having the same patterns like the eldest child, but just it will be reduce to 90% to 80%. In some of the family, they will not get so much of attention from the parents.
The youngest:
This child is being pampered by not only parents but the whole family. Usually, they get what they want since they are child. Because of that, some of them become a manja child. They no need to worry about anything in the home. They will be relax and more depends on their sisters or brothers. Parents will be always take care and worried bout them. They won't be freedom as their brothers and sisters. Every planning will be scanned by parents. They will also need to learn many things when they ought to leave their family.
The only one:
This kind of child normally will be spoilt by grandparents or parents. He/She is the only one of the family. They will get more love comparing the youngest child in one family. They no need to fight for toys or love. They will get what they desired. But, they are more lonely and will be hoping for sisters and brothers. They didn't have the childhood that playing with brothers and sisters.
Above is just my opinion. Every parents sure will love all their children as many as they could, but just sometime they unmanage and no time to give a fair attention to each child. That's why sometime we will think that they will be love brothers or sisters more than us. You having such of idea for once, but don't be always. Coz actually they love you very very much. Be appreciate with the everything they do for you.
I'm thankful to my parents. Although I'm the youngest and you may also can said I'm the only one (coz I'm the only daughter in family.. haha..), but my parents won't spoilt me. Sometimes I also having argument with them, but I still love them. I think everyone will also like me.
Be cherish to the relationship with your family. Appreciate the every moment you being with them. Be loved and loved them also.
As we know, there are big difference in the family. Here is my opinion..
The eldest:
This child in the family will be the most happiness while they are young. They are the first child of their parents or family. So, they will get more pamper before the younger sister or brother born. They having a big responsibilities to take good care for the youngers when they grown up. While they will be learning more and having more knowledge than the youngers. Anything that couldn't be settle by youngers, they will be the one who settle it. They learned to make decision and independant. They learn to be care and loving. They are the one who in charge when the parents are not in. Because of all these factors, they are more tension. Some of them may need to afford their family's expenses. Moreover, they may need to afford the youngest to continue their study. Difference responsible to the difference family. But, normally parents will be more trusty and feel ease for what they do. The eldest child having more freedom as parents think they had grow up and independant. They are mature and know what should be planning for themselves.
The middle child:
This may the second or third or the following child. They will get more love while the youngest child is not yet born. They will be sharing the love from brothers and sisters with the youngest. One thing is they also having their own of freedom and not be as tension as the eldest. For sure, they also having their own responsibilities. But, they won't get the love as much as the youngest (usually is like that la..). They also got to learn independant as the eldest. They having the same patterns like the eldest child, but just it will be reduce to 90% to 80%. In some of the family, they will not get so much of attention from the parents.
The youngest:
This child is being pampered by not only parents but the whole family. Usually, they get what they want since they are child. Because of that, some of them become a manja child. They no need to worry about anything in the home. They will be relax and more depends on their sisters or brothers. Parents will be always take care and worried bout them. They won't be freedom as their brothers and sisters. Every planning will be scanned by parents. They will also need to learn many things when they ought to leave their family.
The only one:
This kind of child normally will be spoilt by grandparents or parents. He/She is the only one of the family. They will get more love comparing the youngest child in one family. They no need to fight for toys or love. They will get what they desired. But, they are more lonely and will be hoping for sisters and brothers. They didn't have the childhood that playing with brothers and sisters.
Above is just my opinion. Every parents sure will love all their children as many as they could, but just sometime they unmanage and no time to give a fair attention to each child. That's why sometime we will think that they will be love brothers or sisters more than us. You having such of idea for once, but don't be always. Coz actually they love you very very much. Be appreciate with the everything they do for you.
I'm thankful to my parents. Although I'm the youngest and you may also can said I'm the only one (coz I'm the only daughter in family.. haha..), but my parents won't spoilt me. Sometimes I also having argument with them, but I still love them. I think everyone will also like me.
Be cherish to the relationship with your family. Appreciate the every moment you being with them. Be loved and loved them also.
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